The Belief In Separation

Couple-back-to-backI want to share with you something that I think will make a few of your heads spin, but I’ll go ahead anyway.

Everything in this world tells us that we are separated from each other. Even (or I should say, especially) our bodies seem to prove that this is true. We see someone over there, we feel other people and things and our bodies tell us we are separate.

The ego is based on the belief in separation…separation from others, the world, God, and our true Selves. This belief is literally insane. If we were separate from all that is, we wouldn’t exist.

The ego tells us we must defend the body from attack. We believe we must attack others to defend ourselves, and they attack back. We see fear and suffering all around and we believe this is how the world just is. We do not realize this is the world we have created through our egos.

However, there is another way of seeing things. It is through the recognition of what we really are which is Love. The way to create this shift in perception is by retraining of the mind.

As long as we experience ourselves in this world, we will have an ego. However, as we heal our minds of the belief in separation, we don’t allow the ego to run the show. We put Love back into the driver’s seat. We allow simple acts of kindness to the world and to ourselves to guide us.

We are not alone in this process of healing the mind. We have assistance and guidance available to us who can help us in every moment of every day. All we need to do is remember to ask for help with everything.

I choose to call this guidance God which, to me, is synonymous with Love. You can choose whatever higher power you want that works for you. Or…you don’t have to believe any of this and can choose to believe whatever you want.

I believe the only choice we have is how long we choose to stay in fear and suffering. Why wait? You can choose love over fear now. And, of course, always remember your passion.

Maren Nelson
Minister of Mind/Body Healing
Life Breath Integrations


I just wanted to make a short entry to say thank you to all of you for your supportive comments concerning my blog. The fact that I’ve just touched the surface with the information I’ve given you on emotional clearing and I’ve received such a positive response, has made me feel very excited about getting my book done so I can give you all much more in depth information, exercises and stories than what I’ve put in these posts.

I also want to reply to several comments that I’ve received from readers concerning their desire to donate to my blog. I have just recently added a “Donate” button through Paypal which you’ll find to the right of the pages if you wish to donate now. Perhaps this is how I’ll be able to get my book published is through your support. How ironic. I love it.

Some of you have asked what theme I use, etc. I use WordPress and yes, this theme is free. If you have any more questions and want a really great web guy, contact Martin Mancha at his website. He’s located in Los Angeles.

I will be putting up another post soon. I already know what I want to write about, and I think you’ll like it.

Maren Nelson
Minister of Mind/Body Healing
Life Breath Integrations


Right after coming back from my mother’s funeral, I knew I had to make a decision about moving by the first of May. I’ve lived in Phoenix and Los Angeles since 1988, most recently, in Phoenix. Although I love the slower pace there, my business has always done better in Los Angeles. A big part of me wanted to stay in Phoenix, but another part knew I would experience more growth for myself and my business in Los Angeles.

Honestly, I battled internally about where to be especially with the way the economy is. To move to LA would mean working to build up my practice, find a place to live…the list goes on. In short it would mean a leap of faith.

Then I remembered a statement I have in my workbook for my coaching program, and it helped. I’m honored to share it with you here:


To laugh is to risk appearing the fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out for another is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self.
To place your ideas, your dreams before a crowd, is to risk their loss.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
To hope is to risk despair.
To try is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing and is nothing.
They may avoid suffering and sorrow but they cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, live.
Chained by their certitudes they are a slave. They have forfeited their freedom.
Only a person who risks is free.

So, I made the move to LA. My book is almost finished, and that will bring more changes and opportunities to risk. It feels a little scary not knowing how things will all work out.

One thing I’ve learned and sometimes, forget: It’s okay to be afraid. Just because I may feel fear, doesn’t mean what I’m afraid of is true. The feeling does need to be acknowledged however so that it can release.

I hope this statement is useful to you too. As you move through life, remember your passion.

Maren Nelson
Minister of Mind/Body Healing
Life Breath Integrations

My Mother’s Passing

I know I haven’t put up a post for a while. My mother passed away recently, and I’ve been dealing with that on so many levels. I share so much with others about the emotional process. Yet, when it happens at such a personal level, it seems nothing can prepare you for such a loss.

Wow…the grieving process…I’ve talked in earlier posts about the 5 stages of healing. It’s obvious these are the stages we go through whenever we let go of anything…a loved one, a place, an issue, a belief, even those things that have not served us. We need to trust that process of letting go, and allow it to happen. Otherwise, we suppress and internalize all those feelings of grief.

I’ve had friends and clients share with me how hard the loss of a parent is and particularly your mother…the woman who gave birth to you. There is no way to fully understand until you go through it.

I want to express my deep love for my mother and how she affected my life.

I’m not concerned about her. I know she is in the Light…the light if Love….which I know and trust. Immediately, when I heard she had passed, I checked in and asked my guides and God about her, and I saw her in the light. There was no question about it. I saw her smiling. I felt her around all of the family and so did many of my sisters during the preparation process and funeral.

I am having so many realizations about the gifts she gave to me…to us…before and since her passing. I will share some of them soon. I hope for my family and loved ones, this information will help.

Best, Maren Nelson
Minister of Mind/Body Healing
Life Breath Integrations

How to Clear Emotions

In one of my previous posts I wrote about the art of manifesting and deliberate creation, aka: the law of attraction. The belief is that our feelings, not just our thoughts, create our reality.

When we feel different emotions, we emit powerful frequencies of energy from our bodies. Whatever emotion we are feeling that is the strongest, will be the one that will affect our experiences and what we are creating.

If we say and visualize that we want something wonderful but we are feeling fear, we will attract in more of what is causing the fear. If we are feeling passion, we will be more likely to attract in the positive experience or thing we originally intended.

Many of you may have been working to practice this, but have found it isn’t as easy as it sounds to bring up and feel positive emotions so that you can send out positive energy to create the life you truly want. Many of us were taught since we were young to suppress our emotions, “Don’t cry.” “Don’t be too happy…too sad…too anything.” With all of the unconscious, limiting beliefs and suppressed emotions we carry, it may seem really difficult to shift our feelings.

It is possible to clear what you are holding in your body and unconscious mind so that your emotions don’t control you, your experiences, and what you create. After all these years of helping thousands of people including myself clear emotionally, I’ve learned a few things about emotions.

Although I’ll continue to share information here about how to work with emotions with my posts, I’m excited to share it in depth in my upcoming book. I’ll give you a lot of information and exercises that tell you specifically how to clear emotions, what to expect as you do, with a lot of stories to explain the different concepts. I’ll let you know when it will be coming out. It won’t be long…

Best, Maren Nelson
Minister of Mind/Body Healing
Life Breath Integrations

The Healing Crisis

In this post, I want to talk about the Healing Crisis. Some of you may already understand what it is and the importance of it in relation to clearing emotions. Many people have to experience some kind of wake-up call to get them to realize they need to make changes in their lives. For most people, it does set a precedence for healing.

A healing crisis can come in many forms. It may come as a gentle urging from within to make positive changes, to losing a job that you’ve outgrown, divorce, and most difficult, a decline in health.

The healing crisis, it is the first step out of denial. The next is awareness. We need to pay attention to the messages coming from the crisis as guidance, and then we can make the necessary changes.

If we refuse to pay attention and make the necessary changes, the degree of difficulty with the next challenge will be in direct proportion to our resistance to grow. And they will keep coming until we finally do.

It takes courage, honesty and trust in the process of life, ourselves and God to be able to make changes in our lives to create our greatest fulfillment. I guarantee it’s always worth it.

I hope you enjoy all of my posts as they are a taste of what’s to come soon with my book I’m editing. If anyone wants to share my ideas, please make sure to give me credit for the information. Let me know what you think in the comments section of each particular post so that I know which ones impacted you. And oh yes, don’t forget to remember your passion.

Best, Maren Nelson
Minister of Mind/Body Healing
Life Breath Integrations


Over the years, I’ve found it interesting that many people don’t know what the term “boundaries” means. If they don’t know what boundaries means, how can they know what healthy vs. unhealthy boundaries are?

I dated a fellow many years ago with whom I often felt overstepped my boundaries in the relationship. I felt he was trying to control me much of the time. I would talk to him about it, but every time I did, his eyes would glaze over. I could see he didn’t know what I was talking about.

Several years after we broke up, I ran into him. During our conversation, he admitted to me he never knew what I was talking about when we were together when I talked about boundaries. He actually thought I wanted to draw a line down the middle of the room with him on one side and me on the other. He had learned differently since then. We both had a good laugh over of that.

Most of us were taught boundaries (or not) within our families while we were growing up. If we were not respected as individuals with rights of our own as children, we may have come to believe this is just the way things are. We learn not to respect ourselves and other people. We may not even be aware this behavior doesn’t allow for healthy relationships.

To create healthy boundaries you need:

  1. Respect for yourself and others.
  2. Don’t assume, project your will, or try to control others.
  3. Good communication skills.
  4. Set up ground rules that you and the people within your relationships agree to.
  5. Complete your agreements with yourself and others.
  6. If the agreements you have made with yourself and others don’t work for you for whatever reason, be honest about what it is you need and come up with a new agreement that works that everyone agrees to.

I can’t begin to share with you the importance of creating healthy boundaries in your life. You will gain a deeper sense of trust, personal integrity, and self worth as all of your relationships, both business and personal, improve.

In my upcoming book, I devote an entire chapter to boundaries. I hope you enjoy all of my posts as they are a taste of what’s to come soon. If anyone wants to share my information, please make sure to give me credit.Thanks.

Let me know what you think in the comments section of each particular post. And oh yes, don’t forget to remember your passion.

Best, Maren Nelson
Minister of Mind/Body Healing
Life Breath Integrations

“Emotions & Change”

I’ve had a few friends contact me since my last post letting me know how much it meant to them. It seems the process of change can be difficult for many people.

There is something I want to add about the process of change that most people don’t know. It is core to our beliefs about change and can stop us in evolving into the kind of people we want to be. It can stop us from experiencing the love, joy, abundance and fun that we deserve.

When many of us were born, it was a frightening and painful experience. We came from an environment of having all of our needs met, simply floating in our small, little world. We heard the constant rhythm of our mother’s heartbeat. We felt what our mother experienced emotionally, but for the most part, we were at peace.

Birth for most of us was frightening and painful. This first real change was quite literally life and death. Later, we unconsciously associate any change with this early experience, and that fear can stop us.

Simply knowing this little piece of information can help anytime we have a decision to make. As I shared in my last post, every change is like a little death, but doesn’t have to be viewed as bad. Sometimes, it is simply fear of the unknown.

I encourage you to expand your horizons and your comfort zone, and don’t forget to remember your passion.

Best, Maren Nelson
Life Breath Integrations

“The Five Stages of Healing”

I want to thank everyone for your support and prayers over my recent surgery. All went well as I knew it would. The recovery time is taking longer than it might for some people because it was an issue I’ve had as long as I can remember.

Before the surgery, I prayed and asked God and my Spirit Guides to help me to heal as much as I could not just physically, but emotionally too. I knew there would be a lot of energy that I had been holding in my hip that would release before, during and after the surgery, and there was.

In Elizabeth Kubler-Ross’ information on death and dying, she reveals the stages a person goes through as they grieve. These five steps: denial, anger, bartering (negotiation), sadness, and acceptance, are also the same steps we go through whenever we let go of anything whether it’s a person, a place, an issue, or a belief.

I’ve seen it happen hundreds of times when a client releases something that is limiting them or holding them back, and they still experience the same steps. For instance, they may feel a deep sadness about letting go of a belief that they’re not good enough and wonder why they feel this way. It can feel like letting go of an old friend even though it’s something they want to let go of. I let them know this is all part of the process. I encourage them to feel the sadness, and let go.

I experienced these steps with my surgery. The problem in my hip had been with me so long, it felt like a part of who I was. In allowing the process to happen, it meant I would have to shift how I see myself in some ways. This shift in self-identity is an experience of letting go of who I thought I was so that I can open to being more of all that I can be. I have experienced the full range of emotions with this, but I know it’s important that I do so that I can move on.

As we begin to heal emotionally, we will experience a shift in self-identity. Some people may be afraid that, “If I let this go, then who am I?” That can feel very threatening to many people and they stop the work. However, if we stay with the process and shift how we’re seeing it, the experience can be the adventure of our lives. And don’t forget to remember your passion.

Best, Maren Nelson
Life Breath Integrations

“Manifesting & Emotions”

maren nelsonWith well over a million copies sold of “The Secret”, it is becoming commonly understood it is our feelings, not just our thoughts that create our reality. If we want a particular positive outcome with something we choose to manifest (or not) in our lives, our emotions must be in alignment with those that we would experience if we actually had that thing or event right now in this moment. The energy and focus we put into this meditation, creates a vacuum that draws to us the thing we want to create.

Not only is it possible to practice this art of deliberate creation on our own, we can also enlist others to focus their positive thoughts and emotions to increase the power of the “prayer” we are working on. I want to practice that with you now if you are willing to play along with me. I’m going to share with you my “script” of the outcome I want after an upcoming surgery.

“I just got back from the gym. I’m back to my full workout of lifting weights and doing 30 to 45 minutes of cardios four to six times a week. I’ve even started back to yoga. I feel fabulous! I feel stronger and better fit than I’ve felt in years. Because I have good muscle memory from the years I was able to work out, I’ve been able to get back in shape within just a few short months. Those endorphins are working, and I feel happy and energized most of the time.

I feel sooooo grateful I was able to get this done. Everything fell right into place with the insurance and finding the perfect doctor. I have friends and loved ones who graciously helped me before and after the surgery physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially.

Not only is the pain in my right hip gone, I’ve been able to heal and let go of the energy of certain beliefs about myself and my life that I was holding in that area of my body. The hip is about moving forward in life and the right side of the body is masculine. To me, healthy masculine energy is about direction and purpose. What this means for me is that my business has blossomed, and oh, how I love sharing the breathwork and writing and speaking about emotional clearing.

I feel balanced and centered in my life too. My leg was slightly shorter than the other, and now, it’s not. I love how this whole process played out. This experience is evidence to me that I am being watched over and that everything happens for a reason (even if I don’t always know what that is in the moment).”

Hold me in your prayers and your positive thoughts and feelings for the success of this event that I already know will turn out well. I feel deeply blessed that I have so many friends, clients and loved ones I get to share and experience this wonderful journey called life with. And as always, remember your passion.

Best, Maren Nelson
Life Breath Integrations